Just an update; Got the van back frome the mechanic. He found nothing.
I hooked up my tone generator and yep, it goes to the PCM and to the trans speed sensor.
It also goes into the instrument cluster, which I have heard a lot of bad things.
I am an industrial electrician and have rewired large machines and conveyor systems with 1000's of terminations. I never realized how many wires were in the new vehicles.
Great place they put the PCM, right under the break resevore. I wonder how good the unit is sealed.
Judging by the paint missing under the PCM from getting breaks changed, it has been drenched in hydraulic fluid.
Thanks for the leads. If I find it I will post the results.