Bill - Ayup - these are the big guns

! As "guest" suggested, redundant grounds can only help when they show to solve a problem.
Seems you've found the right spot - now how to know why it doesn't last?? Not sure how to test a relay except playing with a test light and watch which prongs are empowered that DO make things work and see that they do and when or if one doesn't I would blame the relay again - new or not.
I've had quite a go around with these relays. Have a gallon Zip-Lock bag full of known good used ones (OE) from known running cars when wrecked at a bone yard that let's me go wild!
One of my own (88 TC) got four replacements in about 10 miles of use over a few years - that one in storage and just gets excercised now and then. ((Kept as new))
I've taken these relays apart (not designed to) to see what clicks in there. They are what I expected - points that close with mini electro-magnets. Showing my age now these "points" when used for ignition were intended to be aligned (bet I have the only point alignment tool left in the world!) and with ignition points would show when used a while that they were perfect or not. Same thing must exist with these relays but you can't mess with them. History has shown with the relays - good ones are good indefinately and bad ones show right up.
When you get one to work several times and then it fails it would be nice to see which wires light up when working and which one quits when it fails. Many times a good hard whack on these relays with the plastic end of a screwdriver can get you home if stuck!
Dan mentioned the diagrams were not so special for these cars. I'm hoping wire colors are consistant thru the vintage of these and can just go see which ones light up on one of my own if you wish - three of these similar cars here right now - all run well, all known from new!
We'll get this fixed for good!
T
Tom Greenleaf - MetroWest Boston - USA
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